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The decision to
get a dog is not something to be taken lightly. An adorable puppy can
tug at our heartstrings but, in the end, will require a significant
investment of your time and money for a significant number of years.
Socializing and training a new puppy is time consuming and,
occasionally, frustrating. It can increase the amount of stress on the
family, and the dog, working to provide the constant supervision,
socialization, and training that is necessary to successfully integrate
a dog into a family environment. This is especially true if the
primary caregiver(s) are working outside of the home and/or have young
children, an elderly parent, or other persons and/or pets to care for.
This does not mean that it cannot be done. But, prospective dog owners
often underestimate the investment of time, energy, and money,
required.
Additionally,
depending upon what breed or mixed breed you ultimately select it may
take some time to find the right breeder and/or the right puppy/dog.
Reputable, ethical breeders do not breed frequently. And, they only
breed when they have found a pair who has been proven to possess the
health and temperaments required to insure, to the extent possible,
healthy, well tempered, offspring.
Making this decision impulsively, can lead to frustration,
disappointment, and eventually, may result in the surrender of the dog
to a shelter or rescue.
In
the US, the tragic fact is that, millions of the dogs are prematurely
euthanized, annually. And, most often, it is the owners, not the dogs,
who are responsible for their premature deaths. Impulsive or poorly
thought out decisions; the selection of a difficult or headstrong breed
because it is 'popular' or you like how it looks; or, for that matter,
any dog selected for looks rather than temperament, 'match' to your
lifestyle, and your ability to provide proper care and environment; the
lack of consideration of the lifestyle changes you may experience over
the next 12 to 14 years; as well as the lack of proper socialization,
training, physical activity, and attention -- these are all major
contributors to the need for so many shelters and rescues. And,
results, all too frequently, in premature euthanasia.
WHY DO YOU WANT A DOG?
The first
question you should ask yourself, honestly is . . .
Why do I
(we) want a dog?
If your answer is:
For my son/daughter/children .
. . Trust me, this
will be YOUR dog! After the 'honeymoon period', the kids may only play
with the dog, occasionally. They may groan and grumble about any
dog-related responsibilities, doing them, begrudgingly, only after
significant prodding from you. As children's interests and activities
change, over the years, their level of involvement with the dog will
most likely be, inconsistent, at best. Additionally, your children,
especially, young children, will need to be 'trained' in how to behave
with the dog and will need to be supervised when with the dog.
For protection . . .
I know some may disagree
but, it is my opinion, that the only time is it a good idea to get a
dog for the purpose of protection is in professional or agricultural
situations and only when the owner/trainer is humane and knowledgeable
of dog behavior and dominant dog training/handling. In all other
situations - probably 99.9% - an alarm system, security fence, or other
measures are much more appropriate and effective.
To breed puppies . . .
If you've read the third
paragraph of this piece and still feel this way, there is probably
little I can offer to change your mind. But, just in case, let me
restate the case a little more thoroughly. The breeding of dogs is a
responsibility not to be taken lightly. If it is not your intention to
remain responsible for all of your puppies for their entire lives,
including being willing to take back and care for those who may find
themselves homeless, do not enter into this endeavor. If you are
planning on breeding for profit, understand that there are much easier,
more profitable and ethical ways to make a buck. Dogs are living
beings and dog breeding requires a significant investment of time,
money, labor, knowledge, both academic and practical, patience, and
emotional fortitude, to be done responsibly and humanely. Please visit
a few of the shelter and rescue websites, or your local shelter, and
witness the problem yourself. View the faces of the homeless dogs and
talk to the volunteers and staff who, all too often, must take that
'final walk' with them.
Because BreedX is 'Cool', was
in a movie you saw, is unique and exotic, is free/cheap, or other such
nonsense . . .
One of the WORSE reasons to get a dog, or any other animal, for that
matter, is because of their physical appearance or popularity due to a
movie, TV show, or other publicity. Often, these venues feature
exotic, rare or unique breeds that are, in the overwhelming majority of
pet situations, unsuitable as companions. This visibility may also
draw out those 'breeders' whose primary motivation is profit versus
health, temperament, structural soundness and the welfare of their
dogs.
And, remember
to incorporate the same thoughtful consideration on whether or not to
get a dog, and which breed or mix, when your friend, coworker or
relative offers you one of Fluffy's puppies. Dogs are never really
'free' or 'cheap' and, in reality, require significant financial,
physical, time, and environmental resources. At a minimum, none of
these, or other such reasons, are sound selection factors for getting a
dog and selecting a particular breed or mix. And, remember, if it is
difficult for you to find information on a particular breed, or a
breeder of the breed, it follows that you will most likely also have
difficulty finding local support services that are familiar with the
training, health care, and maintenance needs of that breed.
THE RESPONSIBILITIES OF DOG OWNERSHIP
However, if you
are interested in getting a dog for the RIGHT reasons, please ask
yourself the following 10 questions, prior to selecting a breed and
breeder or visiting your local shelter or rescue facility:
1)
Are you, and all those who live with you,
committed to spend 12+ years providing health care, food, grooming,
training and attention to a dog? Do the people who live with you also
want a dog?
2)
Do you have the time and/or resources available
. . . To take your dog for walks and to the vet? To bath, brush,
clip, and, otherwise, groom your dog as often as necessary? Will you
want to play and, perhaps, work on training daily, with your dog? Are
you willing to take your dog to puppy socialization, kindergarten, and
basic obedience classes?
3)
Are
there lifestyle-altering events that could occur in your foreseeable
future? - A baby, caring for an elderly family member, a divorce, job
uncertainty, etc. And, how would you deal with these changes as they
impacted your ability to care for a dog?
4)
Is your personality conducive to dog ownership?
Do you often feel 'stressed out'? Do you like to have total control
over your environment or 'space'? Are you a 'neat freak'? Are you
flexible? Patient? Answer honesty - nobody but you will know AND,
more importantly, nobody but you will have to live with the results of
your trying to 'fit' your personality to a dog.
5)
Are you physically able to care for a dog? Are
you economically able to provide care for a dog?
6)
Is your environment prepared for a dog and/or are
you willing to make the investment of time and money necessary to
insure that it does? Is there a yard or park-like area for your dog to
walk and relieve him- or her- self? Is your yard, or a portion of it,
fenced? If your dog will be outside for any period of time, will you
provide a secure and comfortable shelter for your dog? Although you
may have a secure and comfortable location for your dog while it is
outdoors, dog should not be left outdoors, unattended, for extended
periods of time. They can be taunted, released, stolen, or worse.
Tethering can cause serious physical harm or death in the event of an
entanglement or other such accident. Further, prolonged tethering can
cause undesirable behavioral and personality traits to surface.
Additionally, garages may contain chemicals, tools and other items that
can be dangerous and/or harmful to your dog.
7)
Will your dog be alone for long periods of time,
daily? Can you arrange for the dog to be let out for a romp, given
water, medication, and playtime, as necessary, during the day? Or,
will you become angered and frustrated by behavioral issues that may
arise due to the fact that your dog is alone for long periods of time?
(i.e., relieves him or herself indoors; chews up a blanket, your shoes,
your favorite chair cushion; barks incessantly, causing your neighbors
to become angry or, perhaps, even call animal control on you; etc. Do
not plan to leave your dog outdoors or in a garage all day while you
are away! If this is in your plans, I suggest you revisit the question
"Why do I/We want a dog?"
8)
Are you willing to spay/neuter your dog, as soon
as possible, to reduce the chance of an accidental breeding?
9)
Do you travel frequently? Will it be difficult
for you to find quality care for your dog when you are away?
10)
Do you really LOVE dogs? If you are truly
motivated by your love of dogs, or a particular dog, you most likely
don't need this page. You've done your homework and are ready for a
lifelong commitment. You will train and play with your dog, provide
appropriate veterinary care and nutrition, you will bath and groom him
or her, happily, and the occasional behavioral problem won't throw you
for a loop. If this is the case, please visit the other related
sections of the library for helpful articles on breed or mix selection,
puppy or adult?, adoption or breeder, finding a breeder, preparation
for your dog, training care, and more.
CLOSING THOUGHTS
While there are a few breeds, especially exotic or rare
breeds, which I would not recommend to people considering dog
ownership, there are several shared traits and needs that are basic to
all dogs. All require socialization, training, a secure, comfortable
and safe environment, grooming and health maintenance, professional
health care, a quality diet, companionship, attention, and love. All
dogs are canines and think like canines. It is important that you
educate yourself through books, training classes, etc., so that you
will be able to interpret and understand their behavior and respond
appropriately.
Additionally, with regard to "non-shedding dogs", while
there is no such animal (except for hairless varieties which present
greater maintenance and care challenges), some do shed considerably
less than others (i.e., several terrier breeds, schnauzers, poodles,
etc.). However, understand that if it is an allergy or asthma that you
are concerned with, it is likely not the shedding of hair that causes
the reaction in humans, it is proteins in the saliva, dander or contact
with urine, that will often trigger allergic reactions. Non-allergenic
breeds of dogs or cats do not exist. Animals tend to shed dander at
different rates and hair length is only a minor factor in the amount of
dander an animal makes. Animals may also be more allergenic at certain
times of the year as they go through dander-shedding cycles. The
characteristics of a person’s allergies can also change over time.
Purchasing a so-called "non-allergenic" breed usually does not work
out. Getting rid of a pet after emotional attachments have been made
is hard for all involved. Additional recommended online materials
includes:
Cindy Tittle Moore's Allergy FAQ and the
Pets and Allergies: Minimizing the Reaction by Clifford Bassett,
M.D., FAAAAI.
However, if it is the 'mess' you are concerned about, while
you can minimize the amount and/or length of the hair/undercoat shed
via breed selection and proper grooming, dogs can and do make messes
having nothing to do with shedding. So, if muddy coat and paws or a
bit of doggy 'fragrance' are going to throw you into a tailspin, please
reevaluate if this is the best time for you to get a dog.
Thoughtful breed and breeder selection can improve, to some
degree, the odds that you will find a healthy, well-tempered, dog that
meets your expectations in a family pet. Deciding to get an older
adoptable pure or mixed breed dog can eliminate a few 'unknowns' (See "The
Virtues of an Older Dog" by Valerie Macys) but, may, on the other
hand, present alternative concerns. In any event, at some point during
your dog's life, you will face some 'surprises' or 'issues' that will
require some flexibility and out-of-the-ordinary amount of patience,
time, and effort on your part. Even when dealing with the most
reputable breeder, rescue or shelter, and being extremely diligent and
thorough, in your research, your ability to predict you and your dog's
future, is limited. Therefore, just as in marriage or parenthood, you
must be willing to be somewhat flexible and sincerely committed to
responding, responsibly, to deviations from your expectations.
And, finally, while doing some research on weight pulling,
I came across a great, practical,
primer/warning, by Amy Gerson, on what life with dogs can be like.
While, specifically, written for Malamutes, these 'issues' can be found
in any dog breed or mix and are examples of what you must be willing to
deal with when you decide to get a dog. It is true, that many
behavioral issues can be solved through training and sufficient
activity and exercise; some of these traits are inherent enough to be
recurring and frustrating to owners. If digging, chewing, etc. are
likely to result in your packing your dog off to a shelter, please
reconsider your decision to get a dog.
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